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<generator>Blogsmith http://www.blogsmith.com/</generator><item><title><![CDATA[The Guild Counsel: Why is it so hard to say congratulations?]]></title><link>http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/02/09/the-guild-counsel-why-is-it-so-hard-to-say-congratulations/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/02/09/the-guild-counsel-why-is-it-so-hard-to-say-congratulations/</guid><comments>http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/02/09/the-guild-counsel-why-is-it-so-hard-to-say-congratulations/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/guilds/" rel="tag">Guilds</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/opinion/" rel="tag">Opinion</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/the-guild-counsel/" rel="tag">The Guild Counsel</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/misc/" rel="tag">Miscellaneous</a></p><div style="text-align: center;">
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When was the last time you said congratulations to someone in game? And no, I don't mean the spammy "congrats" when someone in guild gains a level, an AA, a skill up, a crafting combine, or any of the dozen other milestones that pop up every day in chat. Those are the easy congratulations because the accomplishment has no direct effect on you. I'm talking about the congratulations when someone beats you in game. You might be in a duel or battleground, and the other guy ends up taking you out. You might be racing for a named mob, and the other guy gets there first. Or you might be in that guild that always seems to fall just a bit short and winds up the bridesmaid when it comes to guild progression.<br />
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There is plenty of competition in MMOs, but you rarely see much sportsmanship from players. In this week's <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/the-guild-counsel/">Guild Counsel</a>, we'll look at why it's so hard to say "congrats" and why that has an effect on guilds as well as on the communities overall.<p><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/02/09/the-guild-counsel-why-is-it-so-hard-to-say-congratulations/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>The Guild Counsel: Why is it so hard to say congratulations?</em></a></p><p style="padding:5px;background:#ffffcc;border:1px solid #ffff99;clear:both;"><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com"><img src="http://massively.joystiq.com/media/feedlogo.gif" alt="Massively" style="float:left;padding:0 5px 5px 0;" /></a><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/02/09/the-guild-counsel-why-is-it-so-hard-to-say-congratulations/">The Guild Counsel: Why is it so hard to say congratulations?</a> originally appeared on <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com">Massively</a> on Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:00:00 EST.  Please see our <a href="http://www.weblogsinc.com/feed-terms/">terms for use of feeds</a>.<br style="clear:both;"></p><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/02/09/the-guild-counsel-why-is-it-so-hard-to-say-congratulations/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/forward/20167195/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2012/02/09/the-guild-counsel-why-is-it-so-hard-to-say-congratulations/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a>]]></description><category>congrats</category><category>congratulations+for+doing+excellent+job</category><category>congratulationsfordoingexcellentjob</category><category>featured</category><category>good-sportsmanship</category><category>grace</category><category>guild</category><category>guild-advice</category><category>guild-counsel</category><category>guild-leadership</category><category>guilds</category><category>karen-bryan</category><category>problem-members</category><category>sore-losers</category><category>sportsmanship</category><category>sportsmanship+vs+gamesmanship</category><category>sportsmanshipvsgamesmanship</category><category>winner</category><category>winners</category><category>winning</category><category>winning-with-grace</category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Karen Bryan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Anti-Aliased: Keep crying, sportsmanship is dead]]></title><link>http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/06/29/anti-aliased-keep-crying-sportsmanship-is-dead/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/06/29/anti-aliased-keep-crying-sportsmanship-is-dead/</guid><comments>http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/06/29/anti-aliased-keep-crying-sportsmanship-is-dead/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/culture/" rel="tag">Culture</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/opinion/" rel="tag">Opinion</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/anti-aliased/" rel="tag">Anti-Aliased</a></p><div align="center"><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/categories/world-of-warcraft"><img hspace="4" border="1" vspace="4" alt="" src="http://www.blogcdn.com/massively.joystiq.com/media/2008/06/crying_sephare.jpg" /></a><br />
<div align="left"><a href="http://www.wowwiki.com/World_PvP">One harsh world PvP battle</a> later, your corpse lies on the ground as your opponent stands triumphant over you. Both of you put up one good battle, as even your opponent is down to barely any hit points -- the kind of battle where a few randomly generated misses turned the tide of the engagement. Yet, what do you get for your efforts against this opponent? Do you get a /salute, or a /kneel? Maybe even the honor of a /bow? No, of course not, you get the /spit and an orcish teabag in your face just so the <a href="http://www.break.com/index/mom-tells-kid-no-more-warcraft.html">12-year-old on the other side of the keyboard</a> can get his daily jollies.<br /><br />Of course, that's not counting the 7 more times he's going to <a href="http://www.wowwiki.com/Corpse_camping">camp your corpse</a> just so you can't progress for the next 3 hours. And it's also not counting the ninja looters, the belligerent kids in battlegrounds who take orders from no one, and <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/06/27/ask-massively-massivelys-guide-to-mmo-etiquette/">the lying little brats who spew language fit for a factory worker</a> but cry to their parents the second you try to enforce some authority.<br /><br />We have many ways of quantifying these behaviors; things like "If you can't stand <a href="http://www.wowinsider.com/2006/10/23/breakfast-topic-carebear-or-ruthless-ganker/">PvP then go to a carebear (normal) server</a>," "If you don't like it being done to you then do it to someone else," or "Get better gear, n00b." We all know what's going on here, and it's none of the above. Let's just say it aloud and come clean about it: <a href="http://www.parenthood.com/article-topics/article-topics.php?Article_ID=3696">Sportsmanship is dead, and it's been dead for a long time</a>.<br /></div>
</div><p><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/06/29/anti-aliased-keep-crying-sportsmanship-is-dead/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Anti-Aliased: Keep crying, sportsmanship is dead</em></a></p><p style="padding:5px;background:#ffffcc;border:1px solid #ffff99;clear:both;"><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com"><img src="http://massively.joystiq.com/media/feedlogo.gif" alt="Massively" style="float:left;padding:0 5px 5px 0;" /></a><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/06/29/anti-aliased-keep-crying-sportsmanship-is-dead/">Anti-Aliased: Keep crying, sportsmanship is dead</a> originally appeared on <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com">Massively</a> on Sun, 29 Jun 2008 15:30:00 EST.  Please see our <a href="http://www.weblogsinc.com/feed-terms/">terms for use of feeds</a>.<br style="clear:both;"></p><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/06/29/anti-aliased-keep-crying-sportsmanship-is-dead/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/forward/1239673/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/06/29/anti-aliased-keep-crying-sportsmanship-is-dead/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a>]]></description><category>age-of-conan</category><category>alliance</category><category>aoc</category><category>blizzard</category><category>ccp</category><category>city-of-heroes</category><category>coh</category><category>culture</category><category>eve</category><category>eve-online</category><category>everquest</category><category>featured</category><category>ffxi</category><category>final-fantasy-xi</category><category>funcom</category><category>horde</category><category>japanese</category><category>joystiqfeatures</category><category>ncsoft</category><category>opinion</category><category>pve</category><category>pvp</category><category>soe</category><category>sony-online-entertainment</category><category>sportsmanship</category><category>square-enix</category><category>world-of-warcraft</category><category>wow</category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Seraphina Brennan]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2008 15:30:00 EST</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
