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<generator>Blogsmith http://www.blogsmith.com/</generator><item><title><![CDATA[The Daily Grind: Are you talkative in random groups?]]></title><link>http://massively.joystiq.com/2013/12/21/the-daily-grind-are-you-talkative-in-random-groups/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://massively.joystiq.com/2013/12/21/the-daily-grind-are-you-talkative-in-random-groups/</guid><comments>http://massively.joystiq.com/2013/12/21/the-daily-grind-are-you-talkative-in-random-groups/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/culture/" rel="tag">Culture</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/opinion/" rel="tag">Opinion</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/the-daily-grind/" rel="tag">The Daily Grind</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/misc/" rel="tag">Miscellaneous</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/dungeons/" rel="tag">Dungeons</a></p><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2013/12/21/the-daily-grind-are-you-talkative-in-random-groups/"><img alt="HEY GUYS WHO WANTS TO HEAR ALL ABOUT MY DAY AT SCHOOL" data-credit="Square-Enix" data-mep="62691" src="http://o.aolcdn.com/hss/storage/adam/48dccfc0cd5c34c8a44b6d956eb5e896/ffxiv-talkative-epl-1219.jpg" /></a></div>
<em><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/Final-Fantasy-XIV/">Final Fantasy XIV</a></em>'s Duty Roulette has had an unusual effect upon me: It's made me more talkative in dungeons. Oh, I've always been happy to talk strategies and let people know what we're doing, but with the added incentive of the commendation system, I'm far more likely to crack jokes, be silly, and generally aim for making the run more pleasant for everyone. As cynical as that may sound, I find that <em>I'm</em> having more fun as a result, even when I'm doing most of the talking.<br />
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Not everyone likes to be chatty in groups, of course. Some people prefer runs that are silently professional, slicing through content without so much as a "hello." Me, I like to say hello, get to know the people in my group, even if only briefly. What about you? Are you talkative in random groups, or do you generally prefer to let your silent competence (or lack thereof) speak for you?<br />
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<img align="left" alt="" border="0" hspace="0" src="http://www.blogcdn.com/www.massively.com/media/2010/09/coffee.jpg" style="padding-right: 10px;" vspace="0" //><em>Every morning, the Massively bloggers probe the minds of their readers with deep, thought-provoking questions about that most serious of topics: massively online gaming. We crave your opinions, so grab your caffeinated beverage of choice and chime in on today's <a href="http://www.massively.com/category/the-daily-grind/">Daily Grind</a>!</em><p style="padding:5px;background:#ffffcc;border:1px solid #ffff99;clear:both;"><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com"><img src="http://massively.joystiq.com/media/feedlogo.gif" alt="Massively" style="float:left;padding:0 5px 5px 0;" /></a><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2013/12/21/the-daily-grind-are-you-talkative-in-random-groups/">The Daily Grind: Are you talkative in random groups?</a> originally appeared on <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com">Massively</a> on Sat, 21 Dec 2013 08:00:00 EST.  Please see our <a href="http://legal.aol.com/terms-of-service/full-terms/">terms for use of feeds</a>.<br style="clear:both;"></p><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2013/12/21/the-daily-grind-are-you-talkative-in-random-groups/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/forward/20792288/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2013/12/21/the-daily-grind-are-you-talkative-in-random-groups/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a>]]></description><category>culture</category><category>daily-grind</category><category>dungeons</category><category>duty-roulette</category><category>group-finders</category><category>groups</category><category>opinion</category><category>pick-up-groups</category><category>pugs</category><category>random-groups</category><category>random-strangers</category><category>roulette</category><category>social</category><category>tdg</category><category>the-daily-grind</category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Eliot Lefebvre]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 21 Dec 2013 08:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[Lost Pages of Taborea: The poor, lonely looking-for-group tool]]></title><link>http://massively.joystiq.com/2011/05/23/lost-pages-of-taborea-the-poor-lonely-looking-for-group-tool/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://massively.joystiq.com/2011/05/23/lost-pages-of-taborea-the-poor-lonely-looking-for-group-tool/</guid><comments>http://massively.joystiq.com/2011/05/23/lost-pages-of-taborea-the-poor-lonely-looking-for-group-tool/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/fantasy/" rel="tag">Fantasy</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/game-mechanics/" rel="tag">Game Mechanics</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/opinion/" rel="tag">Opinion</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/free-to-play/" rel="tag">Free-to-Play</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/runes-of-magic/" rel="tag">Runes of Magic</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/lost-pages-of-taborea/" rel="tag">Lost Pages of Taborea</a></p><div style="text-align: center;">
	<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/lost-pages-of-taborea/"><img border="1" hspace="4" src="http://www.blogcdn.com/massively.joystiq.com/media/2011/05/massivelylfgtoolheader530.jpg" vspace="4" /></a></div>
Karen's <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2011/05/18/enter-at-your-own-rift-a-look-at-update-1-2/">recent article</a> about <em><a href="http://www.riftgame.com/en/">RIFT's</a></em> new looking-for-group tool got me thinking about <a href="http://us.runesofmagic.com/us/index.html"><em>Runes of Magic's</em></a> own LFG tool. It seems like such a nifty function, but it hardly ever gets used in <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/runes-of-magic/"><em>RoM</em></a>. It's such an interesting tool that I'm happy to see in the game, but it also seems to be better on paper than in practice. Part of the reason might be that it's slightly clumsy to use for the first time, which I'll get to a little later. LFG tools are one of those things that a lot of players ask for nowadays, but they only ever seem to be used minimally unless the devs attach incentives.<br />
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Let's turn caps-lock off, stop shouting in world chat, and take a closer look at <em>RoM's</em> LFG tool.<p><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2011/05/23/lost-pages-of-taborea-the-poor-lonely-looking-for-group-tool/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Lost Pages of Taborea: The poor, lonely looking-for-group tool</em></a></p><p style="padding:5px;background:#ffffcc;border:1px solid #ffff99;clear:both;"><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com"><img src="http://massively.joystiq.com/media/feedlogo.gif" alt="Massively" style="float:left;padding:0 5px 5px 0;" /></a><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2011/05/23/lost-pages-of-taborea-the-poor-lonely-looking-for-group-tool/">Lost Pages of Taborea: The poor, lonely looking-for-group tool</a> originally appeared on <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com">Massively</a> on Mon, 23 May 2011 14:00:00 EST.  Please see our <a href="http://legal.aol.com/terms-of-service/full-terms/">terms for use of feeds</a>.<br style="clear:both;"></p><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2011/05/23/lost-pages-of-taborea-the-poor-lonely-looking-for-group-tool/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/forward/19946819/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2011/05/23/lost-pages-of-taborea-the-poor-lonely-looking-for-group-tool/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a>]]></description><category>application-board</category><category>dungeon-finder</category><category>featured</category><category>finding-groups</category><category>frogster</category><category>frogster-america</category><category>frogster-interactive</category><category>grouping</category><category>grouping-mechanics</category><category>jeremy-stratton</category><category>lfg</category><category>lfg-tool</category><category>looking-for-group</category><category>looking-for-group-tool</category><category>lost-pages-of-taborea</category><category>pick-up-group</category><category>pick-up-groups</category><category>pug</category><category>pugs</category><category>rom</category><category>runes-of-magic</category><category>runewaker</category><category>runewaker-entertainment</category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Jeremy Stratton]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2011 14:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Daily Grind: Do you mend fences or burn bridges?]]></title><link>http://massively.joystiq.com/2010/01/06/the-daily-grind-do-you-mend-fences-or-burn-bridges/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://massively.joystiq.com/2010/01/06/the-daily-grind-do-you-mend-fences-or-burn-bridges/</guid><comments>http://massively.joystiq.com/2010/01/06/the-daily-grind-do-you-mend-fences-or-burn-bridges/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/culture/" rel="tag">Culture</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/grouping/" rel="tag">Grouping</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/opinion/" rel="tag">Opinion</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/the-daily-grind/" rel="tag">The Daily Grind</a></p><a href="http://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/"><img vspace="4" hspace="4" border="1" align="top" src="http://www.blogcdn.com/massively.joystiq.com/media/2010/01/ffxiv-healing-epl-105.jpg"  alt="" /></a><br />
It happens no matter what you do: you get into a bad group of players, or you and your guild leader (or <a href="http://www.playonline.com">shell leader</a>, or <a href="http://www.cityofheroes.com">supergroup leader</a>, or whatever) have a falling-out, or you just tagged something that another person needs.  Whatever the reasons, feelings can flare when playing an MMO, and we tend to invest a lot of ourselves in our virtual avatars.<br />
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Some people, when confronted with rising tempers, try to get everyone to calm down and even things out.  It's not that big of a deal, after all -- it's just a video game, and it's better to make friends than enemies.  On the other hand, some people would rather take the chance to hold the moral high ground and lash out where it's appropriate.  After all, if you don't tell people what they do wrong, they'll never learn -- and it's just a video game, how could they be so upset when you give them what they have coming?<br />
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So which do you generally try to be?  When everyone gets touchy, do you try and be the person calming people down, or the one stirring them up?  Do you try to convince people to stick with a bad group, or do you let the dead weight know what they're doing wrong and then get the heck out of Dodge?<p style="padding:5px;background:#ffffcc;border:1px solid #ffff99;clear:both;"><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com"><img src="http://massively.joystiq.com/media/feedlogo.gif" alt="Massively" style="float:left;padding:0 5px 5px 0;" /></a><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2010/01/06/the-daily-grind-do-you-mend-fences-or-burn-bridges/">The Daily Grind: Do you mend fences or burn bridges?</a> originally appeared on <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com">Massively</a> on Wed, 06 Jan 2010 08:00:00 EST.  Please see our <a href="http://legal.aol.com/terms-of-service/full-terms/">terms for use of feeds</a>.<br style="clear:both;"></p><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2010/01/06/the-daily-grind-do-you-mend-fences-or-burn-bridges/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/forward/19304330/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2010/01/06/the-daily-grind-do-you-mend-fences-or-burn-bridges/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a>]]></description><category>agression</category><category>anger</category><category>burning-bridges</category><category>kindness</category><category>mending-fences</category><category>pick-up-groups</category><category>player-interaction</category><category>player-relations</category><category>submission</category><category>tdg</category><category>the-daily-grind</category><category>virtual-avatars</category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Eliot Lefebvre]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 08:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to find a fellow AFS soldier]]></title><link>http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/02/19/how-to-find-a-fellow-afs-soldier/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/02/19/how-to-find-a-fellow-afs-soldier/</guid><comments>http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/02/19/how-to-find-a-fellow-afs-soldier/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/sci-fi/" rel="tag">Sci-Fi</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/culture/" rel="tag">Culture</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/game-mechanics/" rel="tag">Game Mechanics</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/guilds/" rel="tag">Guilds</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/leveling/" rel="tag">Leveling</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/tips-and-tricks/" rel="tag">Tips and tricks</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/quests/" rel="tag">Quests</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/grouping/" rel="tag">Grouping</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/pve/" rel="tag">PvE</a>, <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/tabula-rasa/" rel="tag">Tabula Rasa</a></p><div align="center"><a href="http://www.rgtr.com/media_downloads/screens/screens.html"><img vspace="4" hspace="4" border="1" src="http://www.blogcdn.com/massively.joystiq.com/media/2008/02/findafscommunity021908.jpg" alt="" /><br /></a></div>
In keeping with <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/02/19/whose-afraid-of-the-big-bad-p-u-g/">today's P.U.G. theme</a>, we stumbled across another article today about how to find and enjoy the community in <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/category/tabula-rasa"><em>Tabula Rasa</em></a>. Given <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/02/18/tabula-rasa-news-not-what-it-seems/">the brouhaha over <em>TR</em> yesterday</a>, we thought shinning a spotlight on this fun MMO would be beneficial.<br /><br />This helpful article (found on <a href="http://www.gaxonline.com/profile/TabulaBlogger">Tabula Blogger</a>) provides an entire footlocker full of chat commands (i.e., "/whisper" sends a message to specific a player, "/group" or "/party" sends a message to your party, "/shout" or "/yell" sends a message to the map you're on) and <a href="http://www.gaxonline.com/profiles/blog/show?id=1511077%3ABlogPost%3A86503">suggestions on how to go about finding fellow AFS soldiers</a> in the fight against the vile Bane. I've been playing this game since beta (and apparently have a far better outlook on <em>TR</em> than other people), yet I have never used the LFG (<strong><em>L</em></strong>ooking <strong><em>F</em></strong>or <strong><em>G</em></strong>roup) Tab. Heck, I forgot it's there to be quite honest. But then, I'm not usually looking for groups (which is a whole other post I'm working on). However, if you are then it's where you need to be to find a group quick and easy like.<p style="padding:5px;background:#ffffcc;border:1px solid #ffff99;clear:both;"><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com"><img src="http://massively.joystiq.com/media/feedlogo.gif" alt="Massively" style="float:left;padding:0 5px 5px 0;" /></a><a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/02/19/how-to-find-a-fellow-afs-soldier/">How to find a fellow AFS soldier</a> originally appeared on <a href="http://massively.joystiq.com">Massively</a> on Tue, 19 Feb 2008 19:00:00 EST.  Please see our <a href="http://legal.aol.com/terms-of-service/full-terms/">terms for use of feeds</a>.<br style="clear:both;"></p><h6 style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"></h6><a href=http://www.gaxonline.com/profiles/blog/show?id=1511077%3ABlogPost%3A86503>Read</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/02/19/how-to-find-a-fellow-afs-soldier/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/forward/1118715/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="http://massively.joystiq.com/2008/02/19/how-to-find-a-fellow-afs-soldier/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a>]]></description><category>destination-games</category><category>grouping</category><category>how-to</category><category>ncsoft</category><category>Pick-up-Groups</category><category>PUG</category><category>richard-garriott</category><category>Tabula-Blogger</category><category>tabula-rasa</category><category>TR</category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Eli Shayotovich]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 19:00:00 EST</pubDate></item></channel></rss>