kitty gladewood

you people are pathetic, sure it's better than your loved one going out and cheating on you, or doing drugs, but the situation I am in is ridiculous, he comes home from work around 5:30pm and goes straight to his computer, before WOW it was his Mac, before his Mac it was his PSP and before his PSP it was his fucking playstation. This is not my son, my brother or my father I'm talking about... This is supposed to be my boyfriend, whom was once my fiance'.

I understand he needs some alone time when he gets home from work... That's fine I need my alone time too. But when he goes straight to his computer when he gets home without even kissing me, or asking how my day was it becomes extremely depressing after a while. Not to mention some nights he stays on til 2 or 3 in the morning and then has to get up for work the next day.

He can't even spend one night with me out of his busy week. And he doesn;t see what the problem is? He think just because he is home with me, that I will stay with him. What the hell am I meant to do? He's 25 years old for gods sake, not to mention he is very vindictive when it comes to approaching him about the issue. It's never his fault, it's his alone time. I have monitored his online time. There was a whole 7 days at one stage, where he would spend upto 8 hours a night on WOW. What is more important, someone who will love you back, help you when you're sick or comfort you when you are down? or a GAME!!! Something that won't ask you how your day was, something that doesn't kiss you good night, something that is FICTIONAL... You people are crazy for getting involved in the game if you have a boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband or child.

You think it's us "wow widows" that are the in the wrong, but think about what you have, think about the time when you first met that person and they were all you could think about. I fear that my boyfriend will wind up a lonely, fat, computer nerd. What happens when your loved one leaves you??? What happens when the next person leaves you?? Will you still sit there and think its so great... When you ignore you loved one so much they go and get love somewhere else.. You should all be ashamed of yourselves... People in the olden days didn't need a game to keep them amused. So the next time you go to log on, and the person who is "nagging" says "why do you HAVE to play that stupid, stupid game?" click cancel and take them on a romantic outing. Show them you really do care. AND DON'T JUST DO THIS ONCE IN A WHILE!!!!! Show them EVERYDAY that you love them, not with a kiss or a I love you, although that is still very much appreciated. But with an original and caring way. Something that will keep them interested in you. Spend a few days a week showing them you care!!!