So, in your worldview, if your post here resulted in my suicide, you should be charged with murder. Hmm, tempting.
Of course your reasoning is absurd. The blame for the suicide lies in the perpetrator - the suicide victim. He murdered himself. Far too late to punish him, but he was the author of his death and the reason for the pain of his loved ones.

Furthermore, equating the deliberate, malicious crashing of servers and the deletion of content with dressing up like an roast ham and staring at someone for ten minutes is even more absurd. There is no comparison, no way of any reasonable person could compare the two behaviours. On one hand you have a business being attacked and their secure data being wiped, their servers being reset and having to expend real resources to recover. On the other hand, you have someone who stares at bizarre Second Life behaviour while dressed up as an anthropmorphic ham. And who occasionally, unavoidably, laughs.